12 Dec YouTube Restricted Mode and Parental Controls
Parents Have a Love/Hate Relationship with YouTube
I speak to a group of parents almost once a week and I can’t remember a time when I wasn’t asked about YouTube. It’s one of the most difficult online experiences for parents to control. YouTube (owned by Google) does have Restricted Mode, which is their version of parental controls that is supposed to block most objectionable content, but it functions differently on different devices, which can cause frustration.
I’m going to start off with a bold statement. Most kids spend far too many hours watching videos, particularly on YouTube. The emerging science around what are being coined as Glow Kids is frightening (kids who grow up immersed in digital devices). The constant stimulation of screens is disrupting their attention template, making it difficult for kids to focus, imagine, self-reflect, and simply be still with their thoughts.
Not only that, but with over 300 hours of videos being uploaded every hour of every day, YouTube can’t hire enough people or create an algorithm smart enough to clear out the filth. Only hours after YouTube boasted about removing 8.3 million objectionable videos during the first quarter of 2018, Buzz Feed found thumbnail boasting bestiality.
With that in mind, if you have a child under 14 who loves YouTube, I’m asking you to say no more often than you say yes, when it comes to how much they watch. In the rest of this post, we would like to practical, age-specific advice to parents about YouTube for each major childhood stage.
How to Use YouTube Parental Controls During Each Age and Stage of Life
YouTube isn’t 100% horrible. There are so many good, even amazing videos out there (just ask my kids how much they love the Dude Perfect guys!). But, to keep it under control, parents need to be observant, engaged, and informed during each age and state of a child’s life.
YouTube Suggestions for Pre-School (6 and under)
Kids ages 6 and under should not be watching YouTube. Instead, if they need to watch something, it should be YouTube Kids (but again, keep it to a minimum). The “Kids” version of YouTube has had a few hiccups, but overall, they’ve continued to stay very clean. But, honestly, I just don’t understand the craze behind watching other people unwrap toys (if you don’t know what I’m talking about, you will).
**Warning – “regular” YouTube (the non-Kid version) has become flush with videos posing as children’s videos that are instead R-rated. For example, people dressed as Disney characters doing inappropriate things. No child under age 10 should be using YouTube at all – for this reason, Google created the YouTube Kids app.
If YouTube freaks you out altogether, there are other options.
- One of our favorite video apps for young kids is Jellies, which curates age-appropriate videos with real people (not an algorithm). This is a great alternative to YouTube Kids.
- Another one recently suggested to us by a teacher who uses YouTube often is ViewPure.com.
The great thing about both of these is that they scrub the ads out. In June 2018, Newsweek reported that YouTube showed horrific demonic movie scene advertisements in front of Minecraft and Disney Frozen videos. Not cool.
YouTube Suggestions for Elementary School (ages 6-10)
Only allow YouTube to be accessed on a public, non-portable internet-ready device, like a Chromebook or a laptop computer.
YouTube Kids still works well for this age group. This is also an age group that might start using a laptop to be online, which means they could “surf” to YouTube.com. If this is the case, then you might choose to blacklist www.youtube.com through a filtering service like Mobicip or Covenant Eyes.
If you don’t blacklist the site, then for a desktop or laptop, we recommend locking YouTube’s Restricted Mode. This will need to be done on every browser on the laptop computer, which you can see by watching this video:
**Important October 10, 2017 update – YouTube now offers a “new look” experience for desk/laptop computers. Unfortunately, this “new look” removes the ability to lock Restricted Mode. WHAT?! Fortunately, our friends at Parents Who Fight have shown us a workaround to keep Restricted Mode locked. You basically click on your profile, scroll to the bottom, and select “restore old YouTube” and then follow the directions in the video above. I swear no one at Google/YouTube has any kids at home.
For Chromebooks: if you’re enabled Google’s Family Link services on the Chromebook, then YouTube is locked and the child can only access YouTube Kids. Some parents find this to be too restrictive, but a parent can simply have their own login on the Chromebook, and anytime YouTube is desired, make sure Restricted Mode is enabled (following the instructions in the video above), and the child is supervised. Otherwise, no YouTube for elementary kids!
YouTube Suggestions for Middle School (ages 11-14)
Now things are starting to get interesting. Your tween or early teen is constantly craving video content. That means parents need to work extra hard to keep it clean.
For computers (desktops and laptops), follow the instructions in the video above.
For Chromebooks: read the note above under “Elementary School” but maybe you’ve determined that Family Link is too restrictive for your junior high child. If that’s the case, then use Mobicip to monitor the device and the apps on the Chromebook. Mobicip is not foolproof (kids can remove the Mobicip extension) but it’s much better than a wide-open Chromebook.
For mobile devices, it gets tougher. For Android devices, there’s no way to force Restricted Mode and keep it locked. For iOS (Apple) devices, you have options. Enabling Restricted Mode on both Android and iOS devices is explained in this video that I did for Covenant Eyes or you can read the explanations below.
Note: As a general rule, our stance is that YouTube should only be used through a monitored browser (like Mobicip or Covenant Eyes) by visiting www.youtube.com. That’s right – no YouTube app in Middle School.
This is an unpopular stance, but given the amount of trash (including porn) on YouTube and the inability to lock Restricted Mode, we believe it’s completely justified. Here are specifics for using YouTube on both Android and Apple devices.
YouTube Controls For Android Devices: use Covenant Eyes and enable their “App Blocking” feature to block the YouTube app and the Google Play Store. This limits their browsing to Chrome and the stock Android browser. They can visit www.youtube.com through Chrome or the stock browser, watch videos, and everything will be captured in their Accountability Report (Covenant Eyes) or their click list (Mobicip).
Mobicip is another good option for this stage of life. It essentially replaces Chrome as the browser for getting online. And, although it lacks the Accountability reporting of Covenant Eyes and it does not have an App Locking feature to block out Google Play, it does something that no other parental control service does – they actually block out inappropriate thumbnail images on YouTube, which is pretty sweet. Meaning, if I go to www.youtube.com through the Mobicip browser, it’s going to block out the little thumbnail images if they contain inappropriate still images. It’s not 100% accurate, but it’s really good.
YouTube Controls For Apple Devices: enable Apple’s Restrictions, and toggle off the App Store so that they can’t download the YouTube app or other Internet browsers to hide their online activity. For middle school, I also recommend toggling off the Safari browser and pushing kids to access www.youtube.com through a filtered and monitored browser like Covenant Eyes or Mobicip.
Related Post: Enabling Apple’s Restrictions = Safer iPhone Experience
If you choose to let your kid use the YouTube app, then Covenant Eyes has a sweet solution for you. Recently, they updated their iOS app which now forces Restricted Mode in YouTube no matter where YouTube is accessed – including in the YouTube App. No parental control solution can track every video watched inside of the app, but Covenant Eyes is the only one that can force a safe search in the App.
This still isn’t as awesome as turning off the app and forcing a child to access YouTube through the Covenant Eyes browser (which tracks every URL visited), but it at least can give you some peace of mind.
If you choose to keep the Safari browser instead of a filtered/monitored browser, then it’s a must to use Restrictions and “limit adult content” so that your kid can’t delete the browsing history. You can review Safari’s browsing history by following these steps:
– Open Safari
– Click the Book icon at the bottom – the second one from the right
– Click “History” and review
Oh, and we’re big fans of parents letting their kids know that they review history. Spying doesn’t teach them anything. But, being openly accountable for our actions teaches them a lot about being careful with their clicks.
YouTube Suggestions for High School (ages 14-18)
At this point, what you do totally depends on the type of kid you have. Read the above age suggestions where I’ve explained all of the different ways to use YouTube other than through the app.
If you decide your high school student is ready for the YouTube app, then you should also have plenty of “look ‘em in the eye” moments to talk through what junk they might be seeing. Remember, YouTube has pornography.
How to Use YouTube’s New “Take a Break” Time Limits
In May 2018, YouTube released a new feature that can be set to send you reminders for how long you’ve been binging on videos. Oh, the irony of depending on the app we built to remind us how to best use the app! Here is how to enable this helpful feature:
Bottom Line: YouTube Restricted Mode and Parental Controls Aren’t All that Great.
There’s just too many ways to unlock them. This is Google’s fault. It would be an amazing Christmas present for parents this year if Google fixed this (fingers crossed!). Until then, find a parental control solution that works (click on Mobicip for younger kids and Covenant Eyes for older kids in the images below), follow the steps above for your situation, and you CAN protect your kids from a lot of the junk.
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