When it comes to getting more screen time, the creativity of kids goes up by a power of 100. Outsmarting parents at every turn! Not today. We’ll explain 12 Screen Time hacks FROM THE KIDS, and then provide steps for beating the hackers.
Parents are more concerned than ever about how their kids use technology. Many blog posts explain risks related to excessive screen time, online predators, and exposure to graphic, sexualized content.
With the release of iOS 12 in 2018, Apple sought to assuage parents’ digital concerns with the release of Screen Time. For some families, Screen Time has been helpful. As it pertains to preventing explicit content in Safari and other hidden browsers, Screen Time’s Content & Privacy Restrictions does a decent job.
But when it comes to actually controlling SCREEN TIME, the Screen Time feature has been hacked numerous ways by motivated, clever, downright prodigious teens who will not be thwarted from using their precious iPhones.
Here are 12 Screen Time hacks and our very best ideas for stopping them.
1. My kid is changing the time zone in Settings in order to evade Downtime.
Give your kid a high five for this smart hack. Nice. Then, remind them that you’re smarter. Find your old report card if you have to. Next…
- Grab your kid’s iPhone.
- If Screen Time is enabled, you’ll need to disable it for these steps.
- Go to Settings -> General -> Date & Time -> toggle on “Set Automatically.”
- Go back to Screen Time. Enable Screen Time. **Important – don’t forget to also tap “Use Screen Time Passcode.” Set the 4-digit code. Don’t forget it. Don’t tell your kids!
- Tap “Content & Privacy Restrictions” and toggle them on at the top.
- Further down tap “Location Services.”
- Go all the way down to “System Services.”
- Ensure that “Setting Time Zone” is toggled on. Tap “Back.”
- At the top of the Location Services screen, check “Don’t Allow Changes.” After you do this, if you scroll down on the screen, you sill see everything greyed out except System Services. But if you tap it, you’ll then see that “Setting Time Zone” is greyed out, which is what we want.
- If you go back out to “Settings,” then “General,” and then “Date & Time,” you’ll now see that it’s greyed out and can’t be changed.
2. Even though the YouTube App is gone, my kid is still watching YouTube videos through iMessage.
So clever! But easy to squash this Screen Time hack.
- Screen Time -> Content & Privacy Restrictions -> Content Restrictions -> enter passcode -> Web Content.
- Check “Limit Adult Websites.”
- **This is the key. Under “NEVER ALLOW” you have to type in the following web address exactly like this: https://www.youtube.com
- Then, back out from there. If you miss one character in the URL above, it won’t work.
- Some parents have also noted that if App Limits or Downtime have been reached for the YouTube app, then a kid can also continue perusing YouTube videos through the iMessage widget (if you’re not sure what the “iMessage widget” is see the image below). This is true. Therefore, if this is being abused, you will need to remove the iMessage app from the “Always Allowed” list. Screen Time -> Always Allowed -> then remove it from Allowed Apps by tappining the red circle with the white minus sign.
3. My kid figured out my 4-digit passcode.
Pick a harder code. Seriously. They may be lurking over your shoulder when you type it in, or looking at the reflection from your glasses. I’m not making this stuff up! They hunt for screen time like starving hyenas.
4. My kid enabled screen recording in order to figure out my 4-digit passcode.
Now, that’s smart. Look for the red recording dot at the top of the screen. If you find that they’re using it to get the passcode, it’s time for a really good “let’s chat” moment. If it’s a trick they try again, and you decide that disabling screen recording is the only move, then here’s what you can do:
- On your kid’s iPhone, Screen Time -> Content & Privacy Restrictions -> Content Restrictions -> then scroll down to the bottom.
- Tap “Screen Recording” and check “Don’t Allow.”
- Or, if you want to keep it enabled, just look for the red, recording dot at the top of the device when you go to type in the passcode. If you see it, throw them in mommy-prison. Busted!
5. I have set App Limits, but my kid can keep using the apps after the limit is reached!
One toggle makes all the difference. You can do this!
- On your kid’s iPhone, Screen Time -> App Limits -> Add Limit.
- Then, select the category or individual app (if using iOS 13) you want to limit. Tap “Next.”
- Set your time limit, and **this is the key,** make sure “Block at End of Limit” is toggled on. See the image below.
6. My kid found software for his MacBook or PC that allowed him to “hack” the 4-digit, Screen Time passcode.
Yes, this has been an issue. We’ve written a whole blog post about this one. You can stop it, but it’s not easy.
7. My kid did a factory reset of the phone in order to get around Screen Time.
This is the most drastic step. If a kid is using their own Apple ID (since they would have to type it back in once the phone reboots) there’s not much you can do to stop this hack.
Be observant! If you’re monitoring their usage through Screen Time on your phone, you would notice a significant decrease in usage if a reset had occurred (since Screen Time would no longer be tracking usage).
If a kid is willing to factory reset their phone for more access, then there are greater issues to deal with. I might argue the kid isn’t mature enough for an internet-ready, portable device of their own.
8. My kid is using Siri to send text messages when I have iMessage turned off during Downtime or App Limits have been reached.
First, figure out what is so important that your kid is doing this in the first place. Who knows what you might discover about your kid! If you determine that with repeated use of this hack, even if you’ve told him/her that during certain times they’re not supposed to be texting, you can do the following to turn off Siri. Fun fact – I met the woman who was the original voice of Siri!
- On your kid’s iPhone, Screen Time -> Content & Privacy Restrictions -> enter your 4-digit Screen Time passcode.
- Tap “Allowed Apps” and then Toggle off “Siri & Dictation.”
9. After Downtime enables, my kid takes a screenshot, and uses the picture to select “send” and a secret iMessage portal comes up.
Wow. We have to marvel at their creativity. If they could only apply this same grit and stamina to algebra. Friends, this is one of the few that we can’t prevent. You can monitor for it with a service like Bark, which can give parents “after-the-fact” insight into iMessage (texting) activity. Have you heard of Bark?
10. Once App Limits have been reached, my kid just deletes the app, and then re-downloads the app from iCloud WITHOUT Family Sharing permission, which allows them to continue playing.
Don’t we all wish Apple would allow us to permanently delete apps from a child’s Apple ID? First, it’s time for a curious conversation about what it is about this app that they’ve re-downloaded that they can’t live without. Listen to what they have to say and you might learn something new. If then you tell them, “Hey, I don’t want you doing that” and they continue, then you might need to turn off the ability to delete apps.
- Content & Privacy Restrictions -> iTunes & App Store Purchases -> type in your 4-digit Screen Time passcode.
- You might consider making all 3 choices read “Don’t Allow” per the screen shot below.
11. After my kid reaches App Limits, he can still access iMessage (texting) by swiping down, tapping any iMessage notification, and BOOM, he’s sending a text message to friends!
The only fix we can come up with is tedious. It requires you to access the device immediately before Downtime begins. Swipe down on the phone, reveal the notifications panel, and then clear out the notifications before Downtime kicks in.
12. My kid is getting around App Limits on texting (iMessage) by going to the Contacts app. From there, they can share a contact via text, and iMessage comes back up!
There’s a general frustration felt by all iOS Screen Time parents about the continued lack of iMessage parental controls. Here’s how to stop this Screen Time hack by turning off the Contacts app:
- On your kid’s iPhone, Screen Time -> App Limits -> enter your 4-digit Screen Time passcode.
- Select “Productivity” and then the Contacts app. Tap “Next” in the upper, right corner.
- On the next page, give the Contacts app a really low time, like 1-minute (the minimum allowable by Apple) so that the limit is reached quickly.
- If you go back to the home screen where the app is, it should be greyed out after that 1 minute.
And, there you have it! We’re sure there are more Screen Time hacks, but these are some of the more significant ones that parents have mentioned. I’ll never understand why Apple doesn’t hire 10 junior high kids to test their products. Give them each a free iPhone, and they’ll do anything.
There are many other toggles that need to be set in Screen Time. iOS 13 also has new settings (iOS 13 started rolling out on Sept. 19). If you want to learn more about iOS 13, we’ve written about every toggle that matters.
I love life. Seriously! Each. Day. A. Gift. Former CPA, business advisor, youth pastor, development director, porn survivor. Current marketing manager for Covenant Eyes and CEO of PYE. God shares wild ideas with me about life while I run. I love guiding parents to teach their kids how to use technology well while protecting them from the bad stuff.