Apple iPhone & iPad
Layer 3: Set-up a clean DNS on the iPhone or iPad.
If for some reason you can’t access your router’s dashboard in order to set up clean DNS, then you’ll want to make sure clean DNS is set up on the iPhone or iPad in order to block as much of the porn as possible.
Follow these steps for setting CleanBrowsing’s DNS on your iOS device:
- Tap the Settings app.
- Tap Wi-Fi.
- On the Wi-Fi network used most often, tap the blue “i” in the blue circle.
- Scroll down slightly until you see “Configure DNS.”
- Touch “Manual” (instead of “Automatic”).
- Delete everything under “DNS Servers” and “Search Domains” by tapping the white subtraction in the red circle.
- Tap “Add Server” under “DNS Servers” and type in 220.127.116.11 and then tap “Add Server” again and type in 18.104.22.168 – these are CleanBrowsing’s servers. If you prefer OpenDNS, then type in 22.214.171.124 and 126.96.36.199.
- **Important!** Be sure to tap “Save” in the upper, right corner.
- Then, you can back arrow out.
You’ll want to repeat this for each of the primary WiFi networks used by the device.
But what about then the phone is using data and NOT WiFi? Keep reading!
A Few Bonus Steps for Keeping an iOS Device Clean:
How to lock in CleanBrowsing DNS settings on WiFi and data:
- Go to the App Store and search for the DNSCloak app. It allows you to use a DNS service across the entire device using the phone’s VPN.
- Search for CleanBrowsing in the list of possible DNS providers.
- Select “Use this Server.”
- To keep enforcing CleanBrowsing across the entire phone, you’ll need to lock in “VPN on demand.” Just click the 3 bars in the upper left, and select “Connect on Demand.” You might also enable “Show VPN icon” just as a visual reminder for the user.
- Then, click the 3 dots in the upper right, and select “Set Passcode” so that after you close the DNS Cloak app, the code is needed to get back in.
Note – there is still a way for a kid to toggle off the VPN on the iPhone, which would disable DNSCloak on the device. Just so that you’re aware, it’s done by following: Settings -> General -> VPN -> the little “i” next to DNSCloak -> “Connect on Demand” turned to off .
Layer 4: Use Screen Time on the iOS device.
Screen Time is Apple’s own, free parental control solution that is installed on all iOS (iPhone and iPad) devices. Our iOS 13 Parental Control blog post explains everything and has been used by thousands and thousands of parents:
Read more! -> iOS 13 Parental Controls Explained
You may also want to explore all of the hacks that we’ve discovered in iOS 13 with related solutions. It was used by the Washington Post in their article about Screen Time weaknesses.
Read more! -> 12 Ingenious Screen Time Hacks (and Solutions)
Special Note: How to control iMessages (Texting) on an iPhone
The biggest reasons kids ask for an iPod Touch are for texting with their friends and downloading and listening to their favorite music. Anyone with an iPod can iMessage (Apple’s word for text) anyone else with an Apple device while connected to WiFi. Unlimited and free! Here is an Apple article explaining how iMessage works. If you want to monitor your kid’s iMessage activity, here are two good articles with some savvy tips:
Bark, which we mentioned above, also monitors iMessages for inappropriate words and phrases, then alerts parents so that they can get involved at the right time. It’s pretty great!
Are any other parental controls needed on the iPhone?
It depends on your situation.
Mobicip is a really strong filter and has a whole suite of controls that mirror Screen Time. Some parents like having all devices using the same service, so in a mixed Apple, Android, Chromebook family, then Mobicip might work. It’s very reasonably priced ($49.99/year for the whole family and it’s our overall #1 parental control solution on iPhones, too).
Bark is another tool that can be connected to a kid’s email account and other parts of the device in order to identify troubling words and phrases. The service successfully identifies instances of self-harm, violence, explicit conduct -> it’s awesome. PYE has over a 1,000 families using Bark right now and it’s reasonably priced ($99/year for the whole family).
For teens (14+), you might want to graduate from Screen Time to something more mature like Covenant Eyes, which uses the power of Accountability to change lives.
Finally, if you don’t think Screen Time or anything we’ve suggested above is working for your situation, then you can always check with your cell provider. Each has their own parental control plan:
iOS Parental Controls FAQ’s
Q: Screen Time just quits working on my child’s device from time-to-time. Am I doing something wrong?
Multiple parents are reporting this to us at PYE. I hope Apple fixes the bugs soon.
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