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5 Most Dangerous Places for Kids to be Online

5 Most Dangerous Places for Kids to be Online

5 Most Dangerous Places for Kids to be Online

Where Kids Use Tech Dictates How They Use Tech

It’s impossible for parents to control all of the doorways that exist for a child to access the web. Creating an internet safety strategy for home is one thing, but how many other ways exist for your child to watch YouTube without you knowing? Although parents can’t control all of the environments where their kids spend time, there are a few high-risk environments that warrant more attention.

5 Dangerous Places For Digital Kids

This list is based on stories I’ve heard from real parents just like you.

1. Internet safety often isn’t top of mind at Grandma’s house.

Many of my most sacred childhood memories are from spending time with both sets of grandparents. Each lived in towns that were much different from mine. One close to the shores of Lake Michigan south of Traverse City and the other on 40-acres of farm, complete with a red barn, sheep, and a pony named Pat in central Michigan. I loved weekends, summers, and entire spring breaks spent with my grandparents.

Unfortunately, today I often hear from kids that when they are with grandma and grandpa, they can do whatever they want with their electronic devices. No rules and no routines. This, combined with a lack of digital know-how often create a perfect situation for kids to get away with more.

The Solution? Help grandma and grandpa set up clean DNS on their browser, parental controls on their devices, and have conversations laying out internet safety expectations. Have a straight talk with your kids – I mean, what kind of kid takes advantage of their grandparents? Make sure they know that if you mess with Grandma, life gets really ugly 🙂

Related post: How to Set up Clean DNS on Any Device. For Free!

2. Internet safety is tough to enforce on the school bus. 

Protect Young Eyes began in 2015, and the first parent that came to me with their horror story of how their sweet, 6th-grade son was introduced to pornography involved the school bus.

Their son was on the morning bus ride to school when another kid on the bus started showing porn to everyone on an iPhone. One of the many sad aspects of this story is that the iPhone belonged to the kid’s father, which had been passed down to his son, which meant this was actually dad’s porn that just didn’t get wiped from the photos on the phone.

When I step back to think about the entire bus experience, there are many things that concerned me. The student-to-adult ratio is usually about 50-1, and the adult has little ability to observe anything happening on the bus due to his/her focus on driving. There’s typically a range of kids from kindergarten to  11-year-old 6th-grade girls through whatever high school kid can’t find a ride, which means the risk of unsavory language and influence is high. The lack of seat belts always has bothered me, but that has little to do with digital safety! My point is this – the bus ride is high risk.

The Solution? Have consistent and persistent conversations with your child, asking him/her what they are experiencing on the bus. Internet safety is essentially void on the school bus. Does your child know what to do when he or she sees pornography? If they’re old enough to ride the bus, then they’re old enough for you to have age-appropriate conversations about porn and digital dangers.

Related post: The Case for Removing Cell Phones from the School Bus

3. Bedrooms (4. and bathrooms) are full of digital temptation.

During 10 years of junior high ministry, I spoke with quite a few kids who struggled with various digital issues. Whether it was cyberbullying, sexting, pornography, or just plain vamping (staying up all night staring at a screen), all of these issues occurred most frequently in their bedrooms. It’s a kid’s domain. His safe haven. Her kingdom. It’s the one place where your kid might be able to get away and just be alone with her thoughts…and that’s the problem.

All alone.

And, the temptations for a whole list of issues lurk heavier at night. There’s just something about the night time that brings out personal demons for most of us, young or old.

The Solution? Have rules for when and where technology is used. Oh, and it your son or daughter can’t have technology in their bedroom or can’t use their phone as an alarm clock, then lead by example and buy a dumb clock of your own. They’re watching you!

5. Internet safety is a nightmare at sleepovers!

I’ve written extensively about sleepover risk. More and more parents just don’t allow them anymore. Four teenage girls, Internet access, up at midnight live streaming through favorite social media? What could possibly go wrong?

The Solution? Your house, your rules. If you have kids over, make sure your wireless router is controlled, you’ve clearly stated your house rules, and parents of those kids know what’s expected, like “if you need something, text me because I’ll have possession of all phones at bed time.”

Related post: Sexually Abused at a Sleepover

The bottom line is that if your kids spend time in any of these environments, then the only effective filter is the one they take with them in their mind and heart. Whether you read the Bible or not, something from the historical book of Proverbs makes a lot of sense. “Train a child in the way he should go.” It was true then and it’s still true today!


Now What? Have you Heard of Bark?

Are you interested in having greater insight into the social media platforms that your kids are using, no matter WHERE they’re using it? Bark is one of the best monitoring platforms we’ve tested. They’re constantly looking for ways to dig further into apps like Instagram, Snapchat, YouTube and others, to keep parents informed about the right things at the right time. We trust them and we think you should, too!

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Living life to the full! That's why He died and how I try to live. I have an eclectic list of professional experience...CPA, business advisor, youth pastor, development director, now educational resource manager for Covenant Eyes. God shares wild ideas with me about life while I run. I want to show parents how to protect their kids from online dangers, which led to the creation of Protect Young Eyes. We recently created Virtue in Media, the first digital citizenship curriculum based on Scripture (www.virtueinmedia.com).

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